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Some more about me(FFisto)


In the course of my in-depth (pun intended) explorations of the topic of fisting, covering more than three decades, I advanced to a point where meaningfully shared fisting sessions allowed me to glimpse vistas of another reality I never knew existed. It surprised me no end that both my respective fisting buddy and I myself were fully aware of entering these realms simultaneously and, upon doing so, were united into one.

In one instance we touched upon what we felt to be the collective human unconscious - the scales fell from our eyes and, suddenly, all pieces of the puzzle had their place. We sensed the suffering and the joy of mankind, and everything in between, all at an instant. It brought us closer still and fuelled our fisting pleasures evermore. I was bestowed revelations - nothing short of a profound mindshift - radically changing my life. It all amounted to an awakening. Subsequently, I felt compelled to revise the way I hitherto treated my fisting buddies and finally fathomed the values of the much cited trust and bonding, the foremost prerequisites to fisting, and what it takes to accomplish both of them.

Although, insight can be gleaned via other means as well, of course, in my case it just so happened for it to have evolved from revelations conferred to me during fist lovemaking. Each time an ensuing chain reaction resulted in a cascade of further realizations. Notwithstanding that they came about in the course of my hedonistic adventures, I actually find them to be applicable to all circumstances of life and living, including how we view and treat each other. To effect a difference to the benefit of all and everyone, awareness of what we think before we act is indispensable.

Never have I taken fisting lightly. It would not even occur to me. We all know what fisting entails and what it means to each of us. If you like, it's serious business. That is why I find it pretty alarming and quite unreasonable of some of us, and not too few, to support the rampant proliferation of superficiality, insincerity and insensitivity taking place these days. Many a profile alone in gay online forums makes that clear: the tone some guys adopt in an effort of fending off timewasters has peaked in an unbecoming snowball effect; unwittingly, these guys are placing themselves in a not too dissimilar position - hardly attracting those they really do wish to meet.

By placing various texts on this site eventually, I hope to be contributing my communal share in counterbalancing the obvious imbalance in as much as this medium permits.

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